Find media buying agencies that plan, purchase, and optimize ad placements to maximize your reach and return on ad spend. Choose from our vetted list of providers specializing in paid social, programmatic advertising, and cross-channel campaign management.
Best Media Buying Companies
11 Companies-Rankings updated: September 05, 2026
DesignRush evaluates media buying companies based on their expertise and verified client feedback to help you make informed decisions. Some placements may be paid.
Led by Nike's Former Global Director of Paid Media
Neon Growth has bought media for brands like Nike, Walmart, and Equinox since 2020. It manages $1B+ in spend and scaled Soundboks 5.5x with an 82% ROAS lift. The agency suits Fortune 500 and high-growth consumer brands with an established budget...
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Media Buying
Digital Marketing
eCommerce
Social Media Marketing
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Location
Los Angeles, California
Number of Employees
Under 49
Average Hourly Rate
$150/hr
Minimal Budget
$10,000 - $25,000
Portfolios Count
10 Projects Listed
Neon Growth Services
Media Buying
Digital Marketing
eCommerce
Social Media Marketing
PPC
Advertising
CRO
Creative Services
Email Marketing
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FTD Flowers
Equinox
Soundboks
Blade
ProFlowers
Glitzy Girlz Boutique
Bucketlisters
Spinn
Crump & Co
Drip Hydration
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Neon Growth Reviews & Testimonials
Tori Gerbig
Founder at Pink Lily
5.0★
Retail Advertising Review from Tori Gerbig
The team demonstrates a high level of skill and persistence in identifying problems and providing solutions.
With their proven track record, you can confidently rely on their performance and take a backseat.
Jacqui Sim
HR Manager at Vivero
5.0★
Marketing Strategy Review from Jacqui Sim
A highly professional company that takes the time to comprehend the requirements of its clients and strives to guarantee that the finished output satisfies those requirements.
William R Marchand
President at Webisoft
5.0★
App Marketing Review from William R Marchand
With Neongrowth we have exceeded their app download goals by 5x; our CPI rate is below the industry average as well. The team has impressed us with their ability to produce effective campaigns at a budget-friendly price. Also, the assigned campaign manager has been reliable.
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Growth Done Right
Moburst has run media buying since 2013 for brands like Uber, Samsung, and Reddit. A Premier Google Partner and key TikTok agency, it cut Shopkick cost per install 87%. The agency fits growth-stage and enterprise apps with $10K-$5M+ monthly budgets...
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Digital Marketing
Web Design
Social Media Marketing
PPC
Media Buying
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Location
New York City, New York
Number of Employees
50 - 99
Minimal Budget
$10,000 - $25,000
Portfolios Count
10 Projects Listed
Moburst Services
Digital Marketing
Web Design
Social Media Marketing
PPC
Media Buying
Video Production
Product Design
UI/UX Design
SEO
CRO
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Discovery
Uber
Pfizer
Samsung
Google
Playtika
Reddit
Calm
Dunkin'
Dropbox
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Moburst Reviews & Testimonials
Bryce Johnson
CEO at gameit
5.0★
Mobile App Development Review from Bryce Johnson
The results Moburst was able to achieve for us definitely exceeded our expectations. Their creative capabilities and devotion to ongoing optimization led to a very prominent spot in the app store. Such high rankings also triggered many other positive effects that we continue to enjoy on a daily basis.
Ori Matarasso
Head of Marketing at Titanbet
5.0★
CRO Review from Ori Matarasso
Moburst promised and delivered. We were highly impressed by the combination of data-based keyword analysis and an inspiring creative process. The company's hard work and know-how proved to be both fast and efficient.
Inna Yuchvits
Global Marketing Manager at Gett
5.0★
Social Media Marketing Review from Inna Yuchvits
In a short period of time, Moburst acquired high-quality users at scale, significantly increasing Gett's brand awareness in multiple key strategic metropolitan markets and driving global revenue growth.
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Performance Creative That Drives Serious Revenue for DTC Brands
Y'all has handled paid media for DTC brands like ZYN and Sono Bello since 2017. Engagements start around $50K/month in ad spend across Meta, TikTok, Google, and YouTube. The media buying agency fits DTC and CPG brands with an established budget ready to scale...
Top Services:
Digital Marketing
Creative Services
Media Buying
eCommerce
CRO
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Location
San Antonio, Texas
Number of Employees
Under 49
Average Hourly Rate
$200/hr
Minimal Budget
$10,000 - $25,000
Portfolios Count
4 Projects Listed
Y'all Services
Digital Marketing
Creative Services
Media Buying
eCommerce
CRO
Social Media Marketing
PPC
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FlavCity
Pamos
Sweat Tent
Sono Bello
Loverboy
Sijo
Lolli
Allie+Bess
Bandolier
Popsmith
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Y'all Reviews & Testimonials
Lucy Ji
Co-Founder at Irritated Inc.
5.0★
Digital Advertising Review from Lucy Ji
We brought Y'all in to audit our Meta and Google campaigns and tell us what was broken. They dug into campaign setups, creative performance, audience targeting, and spend efficiency, then handed us a clear, actionable plan to fix it. The results were hard to argue with. ROAS jumped 184.6%, purchase routing became smoother, and our budget started working a lot harder.
What impressed us most was how tailored everything felt. They took the time to understand our brand before making a single recommendation. Nothing was generic. They also walked us through the findings in a recorded session and hosted a live Q&A so nothing got lost in translation. Professional, responsive, and genuinely collaborative from start to finish. No complaints at all.
Kristen Elworthy
Marketing & Growth at Lawnbright
5.0★
Digital Marketing Review from Kristen Elworthy
Y'all has been fantastic to work with for us, a small e-commerce company heading into a scaling year. We found Y'all when looking to up our creative game in 2026 and have been thrilled with their ideas and execution, as well as how quickly they have learned our brand.
We quickly brought them on to do paid media buying as well and they have been instrumental in helping us scale spend and revenue during our busy season. Most importantly, they are collaborative, responsive, smart and data driven.
For a boostrapped ecomm brand, bringing on agencies is always a huge financial commitment and it can be nerve wracking. Y'all's founder and team clearly care about their clients and outcomes, they go the extra mile, and they are committed to their success. We find them to be true partners.
Neha Salgaonkar
Director of DTC at Save Trees
5.0★
Performance Marketing Review from Neha Salgaonkar
When we started working with Y'all, we were spending just $2,000 to $3,000 a month on Meta. Our goal was to scale that spend profitably while keeping customer acquisition costs in check. They did exactly that. New customer acquisition grew measurably and ROAS moved in the right direction, all without blowing past our CAC targets.
What made them stand out was how plugged in they were. The team monitored our account closely, often sending daily updates and making quick adjustments without needing to be prompted. They never felt like an outside agency. They genuinely cared about the brand and it showed in how they worked. No complaints from our end.
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Your One-Stop Solutions for SEO, Digital Marketing, Web Development
15+ Years of Mastery in SEO, Digital Marketing, and Web Development: Secure Your Path to Online Triumph...
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SEO
Digital Marketing
PPC
Social Media Marketing
eCommerce
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Location
Jaipur, India
Number of Employees
100 - 249
Average Hourly Rate
$15/hr
Minimal Budget
$10,000 - $25,000
Portfolios Count
3 Projects Listed
Elite Information Tech Services
SEO
Digital Marketing
PPC
Social Media Marketing
eCommerce
Advertising
Content Marketing
Media Buying
WordPress Website Design
Web Development
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Vena
Bell
Totally Covers
Urban Vape
Pure CBD
Hemp Oils
Glamira
Sister Wives
Thai Jackpot 777
Live Bet 365
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Elite Information Tech Reviews & Testimonials
Kameron Laurence
Owner at Botanical Remedies LLC
5.0★
SEO Review from Kameron Laurence
I've been extremely impressed with the work Elite Information Tech has done for us. Their SEO skills are excellent, but what really sets them apart is that their expertise goes well beyond SEO. They understand the bigger picture website performance, strategy, and content, and they’ve quite literally helped with everything from A to Z when it comes to handling our online presence. They're responsive, knowledgeable, and genuinely invested in my company. If you're looking for a company that can handle SEO and more, I highly recommend them!
Dan Foster, CPA
Owner at EDG CPA
5.0★
SEO Review from Dan Foster, CPA
After two disappointments with US based firms this one completely exceeded all expectations and the SEO results just a couple months in are already better than where I ever expected to be.
R Blake Miller
Founder at R Blake Miller
5.0★
SEO Review from R Blake Miller
I have worked with Elite for years on a number of projects, this one was all encompassing and required a lot of project management. When I have something challenging, I trust Elite to take care of a lot, and I rarely trust vendors with such integral parts of my business. They have know-how plus top quality workers. I'll be working with them again, and look forward to continuing my projects with them moving forward.
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Social House distinguishes itself by centering on three core competencies: Strategy, Creative Content, and Paid Media. Beyond traditional social media and media buying, the company's approach transcends into cultural dialogue, creating strategies that are both inspiring and measurable...
Top Services:
Content Marketing
Social Media Marketing
PPC
Digital Marketing
Media Buying
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Location
Los Angeles, California
Number of Employees
Under 49
Average Hourly Rate
$149/hr
Minimal Budget
$10,000 - $25,000
Portfolios Count
10 Projects Listed
Social House, Inc. Services
Content Marketing
Social Media Marketing
PPC
Digital Marketing
Media Buying
Video Production
Creative Services
Digital Strategy
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Sonos
pepsi
TORRID
KENRA
sexyhair
LORAC
Schwarzkopf
A24
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Social House, Inc. Reviews & Testimonials
Susana de la Rionda
Head of Trade Marketing at Flow Kana
5.0★
Branding Review from Susana de la Rionda
A legal cannabis company hired SOCIAL HOUSE, INC. to design collateral for in-store promotions. They created terpene wheel display boxes, an interactive bingo experience, gift boxes, and in-store tables.
The team was responsive, collaborative, and communicative throughout the process. They prioritized transparency and accountability, and their talent and imagination stood out.
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Already running paid media? Feel like your account has become stale or stagnant? We will provide a free audit to uncover areas of inefficiency, opportunity, and new initiatives. Our complimentary audits have saved our clients hundreds of thousands of dollars...
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Email Marketing
Media Buying
Digital Marketing
PPC
Social Media Marketing
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Location
Caldwell, New Jersey
Number of Employees
Under 49
Average Hourly Rate
$200/hr
Minimal Budget
$10,000 - $25,000
Portfolios Count
1 Project Listed
Lockhern Digital Services
Email Marketing
Media Buying
Digital Marketing
PPC
Social Media Marketing
eCommerce Development
Digital Strategy
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Superbreakers
Alltroo
Open Blooms
Send Smiles
Fuzzy
Eric Javits
Cinema Secrets
Tony Boloney
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Lockhern Digital Reviews & Testimonials
Jamie Karl
Review from Google
5.0★
Jamie Karl's Review Sourced from Google
I've been working with the Lockhern team for several months and they have been excellent — super hands on, easier to work with. They were able to solve some persistent technology and tracking issues that we could not solve internally or with other agencies within a very short period of time, which got us into a much better place for attribution. Very much recommend!
Samantha Anne
Review from Google
5.0★
Samantha Anne's Review Sourced from Google
We've worked with Lockhern Digital for over a year and have been more than pleased with their performance. Their team brings genuine creativity to our ad strategy, developing campaigns that connect with our audience rather than generic cookie-cutter approaches.
What impressed us most is their thoroughness in analyzing our online practices. They conduct detailed audits, identify opportunities we missed, and provide clear analytics that help us understand campaign performance.
The results speak for themselves - improved online visibility and web traffic, better conversion rates, and a return on ad spend that continues to exceed our expectations. The team is always responsive, professional, and genuinely invested in our success.
I’d highly recommend Lockhern to businesses looking for a digital agency that’s a true partner.
Ashley Turrell
Review from Google
5.0★
Ashley Turrell's Review Sourced from Google
We switched to Lockhern for our PPC and some SEO work after a few bad experiences with other agencies. We've seen huge improvements in our web traffic and ROAS, and we keep looking for ways to partner together more. 10/10 would recommend.
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eCommerce Agency | Acquire & Retain More Customers
We help 7 & 8-figure eCommerce brands acquire more customers and retain them with performance marketing that drives profitable growth...
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eCommerce
Social Media Marketing
Email Marketing
PPC
Digital Marketing
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Location
Toronto, Canada
Number of Employees
Under 49
Minimal Budget
$10,000 - $25,000
Portfolios Count
8 Projects Listed
1 At Bat Media Services
eCommerce
Social Media Marketing
Email Marketing
PPC
Digital Marketing
Media Buying
Web Design
Web Development
CRO
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Beyond Yourself
DAWK FIT
ANS Performance
Maker's Clean
Cilque
Sports Vault
Brian Dawkins (NFL Hall of Famer)
JackJaw
Adaptogents
Nooee Pet
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1 At Bat Media Reviews & Testimonials
TAMMIE NIELSEN
Review from Google
5.0★
TAMMIE NIELSEN's Review Sourced from Google
I have worked with other website companies but none have been so easy to work with! Their onboarding process was easy to understand and they were always willing to answer questions and walk/talk me through things I didn't understand. I am not a website person, so even the language sometimes had to be explained to me. They were very professional and I believe we received great value for our dollars. The real test is would I use them again? ABSOLUTELY!
Jayme Walsh
Review from Google
5.0★
Jayme Walsh's Review Sourced from Google
The whole team at 1 At Bat Media has been an absolute breeze to work with! They helped us bring our struggling and outdated website into 2020 & now they are helping us bring visitors to it. Our phones have been way more busy with inquires, even during these uncertain times with COVID. I highly recommend working with 1 At Bat Media for all your digital marketing needs!
Michael Hurst
Review from Google
5.0★
Michael Hurst's Review Sourced from Google
1 At Bat Media actually searched our company out and came to us with ideas on improving our website. A revamp of the site was long overdue and we were coincidentally already in search of someone we could trust to perform the work for us. They listened to our goals for the site and offered recommendations and delivered an end product on time and exceeding all our expectations. They never pressured us into any 'extras' or oversold anything. They listened to what we wanted and delivered exactly that. I would recommend 1 At Bat Media for any of your website or digital media solutions.
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Vix Media Group empowers businesses by providing expert guidance for organic growth. Our team of industry professionals collaborates to deliver impactful, results-driven campaigns. We build meaningful partnerships, focusing on our clients unique goals to drive significant outcomes...
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SEO
Media Buying
PPC
Digital Services
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Location
Austin, Texas
Number of Employees
Under 49
Average Hourly Rate
$100/hr
Minimal Budget
$10,000 - $25,000
Vix Media Group Services
SEO
Media Buying
PPC
Digital Services
Digital Marketing
Content Marketing
Reputation Management
Web Design
Web Development
AI Development
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Creative Milkshake is a performance creative agency for brands that want ads built to convert, not just get likes. Specializing in paid social, they develop scroll-stopping, platform-native creative backed by structured testing, fast iteration, and clear performance thinking. By combining creative instinct...
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Media Buying
Social Media Marketing
Video Marketing
Advertising
Video Production
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Location
Dubai, United Arab Emirates
Number of Employees
50 - 99
Average Hourly Rate
$150/hr
Minimal Budget
$10,000 - $25,000
Creative Milkshake Services
Media Buying
Social Media Marketing
Video Marketing
Advertising
Video Production
Creative Services
Graphic Design
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Indigo Studio is a boutique social media marketing agency based in New Jersey, specializing exclusively in hospitality and F&B brands. By combining creative storytelling, content production, and performance marketing, the agency helps restaurants, venues, and hospitality businesses stand out and drive real...
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Digital Strategy
Graphic Design
Creative Services
Branding
Logo Design
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Location
Roselle Park, New Jersey
Number of Employees
Under 49
Average Hourly Rate
$70/hr
Minimal Budget
$10,000 - $25,000
Portfolios Count
1 Project Listed
Indigo Studio Services
Digital Strategy
Graphic Design
Creative Services
Branding
Logo Design
Social Media Marketing
Content Marketing
Media Buying
Business Consulting
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F45 Training
Agatha
Cin Cin
Boutique Catering
Loud
Autobar
Old City
Connecta
Hip Pop
ALCO
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Indigo Studio Reviews & Testimonials
Mia
Review from Google
5.0★
Mia's Review Sourced from Google
The best social media and marketing team when it comes to creating content, visual design and strategic consulting. And everyone is so professional and friendly!
Nicole E
Review from Google
5.0★
Nicole E's Review Sourced from Google
Working with this digital marketing agency has been nothing short of exceptional. From the very beginning, their team demonstrated a deep understanding of our goals and crafted a strategy that felt both tailored and forward-thinking. Every step of the process was handled with professionalism, creativity, and a genuine commitment to delivering results.
What truly sets them apart is their ability to combine data-driven insights with innovative ideas. Our online presence has grown significantly, engagement has soared, and we’ve seen measurable improvements in conversions and brand visibility. They don’t just execute campaigns—they continuously optimize, refine, and push for better outcomes.
Communication has been seamless throughout. The team is responsive, transparent, and always willing to go the extra mile to ensure clarity and success. It’s rare to find a partner that feels like an extension of your own team, but that’s exactly what they’ve become for us.
If you’re looking for a digital marketing partner that is reliable, strategic, and truly invested in your success, this is the company to choose. Highly recommended.
Ryan Hamze
Review from Google
5.0★
Ryan Hamze's Review Sourced from Google
Very pleased with their services, will be using them on a regular basis for my business.
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Leaf is a creative agency specializing in performance marketing and data science for next-generation eCommerce brands. By combining hands-on expertise with cutting-edge technology, Leaf helps clients optimize paid media spend efficiency and drive efficient decision-making. Its proprietary platform, Leaf Grow...
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Creative Services
eCommerce Development
CRO
Digital Marketing
eCommerce
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Location
Newcastle upon Tyne, United Kingdom
Number of Employees
Under 49
Minimal Budget
$10,000 - $25,000
Leaf Services
Creative Services
eCommerce Development
CRO
Digital Marketing
eCommerce
Social Media Marketing
PPC
Media Buying
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7 Frequently Asked Questions About Media Buying Agencies
Which platforms do media buying companies manage?
Media buying firms manage major advertising platforms where your audience spends time, both online and offline. They handle campaigns across multiple channels to reach people at different stages of the buying journey and to improve overall results.
Paid search and social Agencies run ads on platforms like Google, Bing, Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and TikTok. These channels drive targeted traffic, leads, and sales based on user intent and behavior.
Programmatic and display They use demand-side platforms to buy ad space automatically across websites and apps. This includes banner, video, and native ads, all optimized in real time.
CTV and OTT (Streaming ads) A media buying firm places ads on streaming services and smart TVs to help brands reach audiences who no longer watch traditional cable.
Traditional media They still buy ad space on TV, radio, print, and billboards when it makes sense for reach and brand awareness.
Audio and Digital Out-of-Home (DOOH) Ads on Spotify, podcasts, and digital billboards in public spaces like malls, highways, and transit stations.
What is the difference between media planning and media buying agencies?
Media planning agencies decide where, when, and how to advertise. Media buying firms execute that plan by purchasing ad space and managing placements.
Planning sets the strategy; buying delivers the ads.
Aspect
Media planning
Media buying
Main role
Builds the strategy
Executes the strategy
Focus
Audience, channels, timing, budget
Negotiation, placement, delivery
Goal
Choose the best mix of platforms
Get the best price and placements
Tasks
Research audience, select channels, allocate budget
Purchase ads, manage bids, optimize placements
Output
Media plan
Live campaign and ad placements
How do media buyers choose the right channels for a campaign?
Media buyers choose channels by matching audience behavior, campaign goals, and budget to the platforms most likely to deliver results. They rely on data to see where people spend time and shift spend toward what performs best.
Business size
How agencies choose advertising channels
Typical channels
Small business
Focus on low-cost, high-return channels with quick feedback. Prioritize direct response and easy tracking.
Google Ads (search), Facebook/Instagram, TikTok
Mid-size business
Balance growth and efficiency. Test multiple channels and scale what works. Combine awareness and conversions.
Paid social, Google Ads, YouTube, programmatic display
Large business
Maximize reach and brand impact while maintaining performance. Use a full-funnel strategy across many channels.
Core logic stays the same at every level: reach the right audience, support the campaign goal, and invest where return is strongest.
How much do media buying companies' services cost?
Media buying firms usually charge a percentage of your ad spend, typically between 3% and 10%, or a flat monthly fee depending on campaign size. Smaller budgets pay higher percentages, while large budgets get lower rates.
Typical pricing models:
Percentage of ad spend: 5% to 10% for most campaigns
Flat monthly fee: $2,000 to $15,000+, depending on scope
Project-based (strategy/planning): $1,500 to $50,000+
Setup fees: 2% to 3% of initial spend (one-time)
How pricing scales:
Ad spend
Typical fee
$10,000-$100,000
8%-10%
$100,000-$1M
5%-8%
$1M-$10M
3.5%-5%
$10M+
3%-4%
Costs depend on your ad budget, the number of channels, campaign complexity, targeting depth, creative needs, and the amount of ongoing management and reporting required.
You are not just paying for ad placement. You're paying for strategy, execution, optimization, and performance improvement.
Is there a minimum spend?
There is no strict minimum spend, but in practice, you need at least $1,000 to $3,000 per month to generate enough data for optimization and results. Very small budgets, like $5 per day, rarely perform because they don’t generate enough clicks or conversions.
For better performance, campaigns should aim for at least 30 conversions per month, which often requires higher spend depending on your cost per click.
More advanced channels like programmatic or CTV usually require $5,000 to $10,000+ to run effectively, and many agencies set similar minimums to ensure campaigns are worth managing.
How long does it take to see results from media buying?
You can see initial results in2 to 4 weeks, but most campaigns need 2 to 3 months to stabilize and deliver consistent ROI.
Early signals like impressions, clicks, and some leads often appear within days to a few weeks, especially on paid social and search. However, platforms need time to learn and optimize, so stronger and more reliable results usually take8 to 12 weeks.
For more complex campaigns, such as B2B or high-ticket offers, meaningful revenue impact can take 3 to 6 months due to longer sales cycles and ongoing optimization.
What industries benefit from media buying services?
Media buying services deliver the most value to industries that depend on steady customer acquisition, strong competition, and precise targeting.
Those industries include:
eCommerce and retail: Drive online sales with targeted ads and retargeting
Real estate and construction: Promote listings and reach qualified buyers
Healthcare and wellness: Attract new patients with compliant, targeted campaigns
Technology and SaaS: Reach decision-makers in competitive markets
Hospitality and tourism: Capture demand with seasonal and location-based ads
Financial services and insurance: Generate leads and build trust through education
Automotive and local services: Drive inquiries and bookings through search and local ads
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